Parental Alienation

At the Olsinski Law Firm, PLLC, we understand how devastating it can be for a parent to feel alienated from their child. Parental alienation occurs when one parent actively works to damage the child’s relationship with the other parent. This behavior can take many forms, such as undermining the other parent’s authority, spreading false information, or discouraging the child from spending time with the other parent. If you’re facing parental alienation, a Charlotte family law attorney at the Olsinski Law Firm can help you take steps to protect your relationship with your child and address the harmful actions of the other parent.

Parental alienation is a form of emotional manipulation where one parent attempts to turn the child against the other parent. This can involve subtle behaviors, like making negative remarks about the other parent in the child’s presence, or overt actions, such as interfering with visitation rights.

Over time, parental alienation can lead to the child rejecting or fearing the alienated parent without justification. While not explicitly addressed in North Carolina statutes, courts recognize that parental alienation can harm a child’s well-being and may factor it into custody decisions under N.C.G.S. § 50-13.2, which prioritizes the child’s best interests.

Recognizing the signs of parental alienation early is crucial for addressing the issue. Some common indicators include:

• A sudden and unexplained refusal by the child to spend time with you.
• The child mimics the other parent’s negative opinions about you.
• The other parent restricting communication or failing to comply with visitation orders.
• The child shows an excessive sense of loyalty to the alienating parent, even when it’s unwarranted.

If you’ve noticed these behaviors, it’s important to document them and seek legal advice. At the Olsinski Law Firm, our Charlotte family law lawyers can help you build a case to demonstrate how parental alienation is affecting your relationship with your child.

North Carolina courts take allegations of parental alienation seriously. This is because the primary goal in child custody cases is to promote the child’s welfare. If you can provide evidence that the other parent is engaging in alienating behavior, it may influence custody arrangements. The court may adjust custody orders to limit the alienating parent’s time with the child or require the parent to undergo counseling.

Under N.C.G.S. § 50-13.7, modifications to custody orders can be made if there’s a substantial change in circumstances that affects the child’s well-being. Demonstrating parental alienation requires clear evidence, which might include text messages, emails, or witness statements. The Olsinski Law Firm, PLLC, can guide you through this process and advocate for your rights in court.

If you suspect parental alienation, taking prompt action is key to protecting your relationship with your child. Start by documenting instances of alienating behavior and, to the extent possible, calmly communicating your concerns to the other parent. If the behavior persists, seeking legal intervention may be necessary.

Courts can order remedies such as therapy for the child and both parents, changes to custody arrangements, or sanctions against the alienating parent. A Charlotte family law attorney can help you navigate the legal system and pursue solutions that protect your child’s emotional well-being and restore your bond.

Overcoming the effects of parental alienation can be challenging, but with time and effort, it’s possible to rebuild your relationship with your child. Patience, consistency, and a supportive approach can help your child feel secure in your presence again. Family therapy can also provide a safe space to address misunderstandings and heal emotional wounds.

The Olsinski Law Firm, PLLC, is here to provide compassionate legal support as you work toward restoring your connection with your child. We understand how emotionally draining these situations can be, and we are committed to standing by your side every step of the way.

To learn more about the services we provide and to speak with an experienced Charlotte family law attorney about your situation, give the Olsinski Law Firm, PLLC, a call to schedule a no-obligation consultation.